The Secret to Facing Adversity

Scripture

Philippians 4:11-13 CEB

I’m not saying this because I need anything, for I have learned how to be content in any circumstance. I know the experience of being in need and of having more than enough; I have learned the secret to being content in any and every circumstance, whether full or hungry or whether having plenty or being poor. I can endure all these things through the power of the one who gives me strength.

Consider

It is a testimony to his faith that Paul could write so optimistically while chained in a Roman prison. The secret, he says, is relying on the power of Christ, whose vital presence Paul experienced daily and profoundly. Paul could endure cruelty and uncertainty imposed from the outside because his mind and heart were focused on the inside. Through faith he trusted that God would satisfy his every need in perfect alignment with God’s purpose for Paul’s life and ministry.

Notice also that Paul writes, “I have learned the secret to being content in any and every circumstance.” Faith that can face adversity with such bold confidence does not magically appear just because we need it. Trusting God is a long learning experience. It is a journey that the Bible calls maturing. We learn to trust God step by step, taking risks of faith that reinforce our confidence in God’s faithfulness and teach us more about God’s nature and character.

We see from Paul’s example that building a solid relationship with God is also the secret to facing adversity in our relationships. To feel trapped in our anger and hurt over an offense can signal our need to spend more time with God. As we shift our attention away from our neighbor’s offense and center it on God’s love and faithfulness, God realigns our heart compass, which was deflected by the conflict, until it once again points to Him.

God further helps us by granting us peace even in the midst of a conflict. This holy peace guards our hearts and minds against the pull of the world as we set our thoughts on God’s goodness—that is, on whatever is noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, or praiseworthy—and offer God our praise and thanksgiving.

Pray

Faithful Father, I thank you that I never have to face adversity alone, even though I often choose to do just that. Let the pain and frustration I suffer in human conflicts nudge me ever closer to You. Grow in me a bold confidence like Paul’s so that I can remain fixed in your love no matter what circumstances come my way.

Reflect

Joshua 1:5; Philippians 4:8-9

Ponder

What two things can I do right away to strengthen my relationship with God?

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