Scripture

Psalm 32:1-2, NLT

Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Yes, what joy for those whose record the LORD has cleared of guilt, whose lives are lived in complete honesty!

Consider

What a relief it would be to live a life of complete honesty. Imagine never having to hide a part of yourself or guard against eyes that see behind your social mask. How refreshing to bring all of yourself into a relationship, every bit of you, knowing you would be accepted and loved and valued despite your flaws, your foolish choices, and the hurtful actions you wish you could take back.

God tells us to confess our sins and repent because he wants us to bring our whole selves into communion with him. God already knows the worst of what we are hiding. Confession is for our benefit, helping us to see how our hidden sins fragment us and keep us from living whole and authentic lives. When God forgives us, he says, in effect, I see all of you, every part, and you are beautiful to me.

God also asks us to forgive one another, and for the same reasons. When I forgive you, I release you from the burden of trying to be someone you are not. My forgiveness tells you that I accept you and value you, with all your weaknesses and even the parts of you that may hurt me. I encourage you to bring your whole self into the relationship without fear of rejection or judgment.

Pray

Heavenly Father, thank you for your gift of forgiveness. Help me to trust you enough to bring my whole self to you and know that you will not scorn or dismiss me but welcome me with joy. Give me grace to offer this same gift to others in my life. When I am tempted to judge and condemn another, help me instead to see an opportunity to extend grace that encourages the other person to live honestly.

Reflect

Proverbs 11:3,5-6; 2 Corinthians 2:7-8; 5:19

Ponder

What is your safest relationship? What makes this relationship so special?