Worthy to Judge

Scripture

Ecclesiastes 7:13; 8:16-17 NLT

Accept the way God does things, for who can straighten what he has made crooked?… In my search for wisdom and in my observation of people’s burdens here on earth, I discovered that there is ceaseless activity, day and night. I realized that no one can discover everything God is doing under the sun. Not even the wisest people discover everything, no matter what they claim.

Consider

These words from Ecclesiastes uncover two important attributes of God:

  • God is omnipotent—all-powerful, almighty, inexhaustible, unshakable, impervious to threats or attacks from the enemy.
  • God is omniscient—all-seeing and all-knowing, equipped with complete awareness of past, present, and future events, with deep and perfect understanding of all things visible and hidden.

An obvious application of these truths is that while God is God, we are not. We do not have complete power or complete knowledge, although we sometimes like to think we do.

For example, when I judge someone’s behavior, I act as though I have complete understanding of this person and the situation. But the truth is, I cannot see all the factors that have contributed to this one particular event. Neither can I look into this other person’s mind and heart and know what prompted the behavior. To be honest, I have difficulty enough understanding my own heart and why I might feel provoked to respond with anger or hurt or disappointment.

My best course in a disagreeable circumstance, therefore, is to trust in God, who can see and know all. Only God has the power to work in someone’s troubled heart, to bring good from a hurtful situation, and to protect me from self-inflicted harm.

Trusting God means following God’s ways when my desires may point me toward a different course. Instead of responding in kind to rude or hurtful behavior, I can choose to be kind and patient because the God I trust has determined such behavior to be wise and fruitful. I can forgive when I would rather punish because I know the cleansing freedom of God’s forgiveness. Instead of appointing myself as judge over another person, I can trust that God will use his omnipotence and omniscience to correct and heal and bring blessing in ways my limited vision cannot yet see.

Pray

Heavenly Father, you are almighty God above all, in all, and through all. I am ashamed to admit how often I have tried to take your place and rule over others as if I were a worthy judge. Forgive my arrogance and teach me how to be a worthy child of yours instead. Lay low my pride and fill me with the wisdom of your Spirit.

Reflect

Matthew 7:1; James 4:12

Ponder

Why are we so quick to judge others? How does it feel to be judged unfairly?

A Yoke That Fits

Scripture

Matthew 11:28-30 NLT

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.”

Consider

When we’re hit hard by a personal injury—that is, a harm done to us by another person—our perspective gets skewed. The injury can seem enormous, engulfing our lives, our thoughts, and our sense of reality. We can’t see how we’ll ever get over it.

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Good Like God

Scripture

Psalm 145:8-9 NRSV

The LORD is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. The LORD is good to all, and his compassion is over all that he has made.

Consider

David composed this song to praise his Creator God. Elsewhere in the psalm he describes a sovereign God who inspires awe and obedience in his people. In the verses quoted above, David describes a personal God whose goodness draws us into loving and grateful relationship with him.

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Give What You Have Received

Scripture

Acts 3:4-7 NLT

Peter and John looked at him intently, and Peter said, “Look at us!” The lame man looked at them eagerly, expecting some money. But Peter said, “I don’t have any silver or gold for you. But I’ll give you what I have. In the name of Jesus Christ the Nazarene, get up and walk!” Then Peter took the lame man by the right hand and helped him up. And as he did, the man’s feet and ankles were instantly healed and strengthened.

Consider

My Bible translation inserts a subtitle for this story: “Peter Heals a Crippled Beggar.” The label seems to fit at first glance.

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Free from Condemnation

Scripture

Romans 8:1-2 NIV

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.

Consider

Many times we find ourselves accusing and condemning others not because of what they did but because of something amiss inside of us. Perhaps we notice an unattractive quality in the other person that we are ashamed to acknowledge in ourselves, and we are quick to criticize it. We may carry secret guilt over an act we regret, so we lash out at others.

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