Thankful No Matter What

Scripture

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NLT

Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.

Consider

When life hits us hard, it’s difficult to be thankful. How much easier it is to throw up our hands and cry out to God, “Why me? Why this?”

In the short passage above, notice that the apostle Paul does not counsel us to begin with thanksgiving. Rather, he encourages us to be joyful, then prayerful, and in the end, thankful.

It makes sense to begin with joy. Joy is a faithful disposition toward God, an enduring confidence that God is steadfast, loving, and committed to our well-being. Joy is a stable centering of our heart that is not shaken by external events. It is a gift of the Spirit, a supernatural lifting that God our Father bestows to bless and help us in our daily walk.

Finding our joy can then shift our prayer focus. In the strength of our joy in knowing how God loves and cares for us, we are more apt to listen for his voice instead of merely protesting our circumstances. Opening our hearts to God positions us to receive divine wisdom and hope and peace, gifts God is eager to give to those he loves.

Such intimacy with God always leads to deeper faith and trust so that, finally, we really can give thanks in a difficult circumstance. Eventually, if we continue to rejoice and pray, we can learn to give thanks not only in all circumstances but for them as well. Trusting a loving Father who is also sovereign gives us confidence that he works through even the worst circumstance for our good and can use something ugly and painful to draw us closer to him.

Pray

Lord of All Circumstances, at those times when life seems unfair, help me to remember your extravagant love for me and the joy of knowing that you called me to be your very own. Thank you for the privilege of your friendship. Give me grace to cling to you through the worst circumstances and to set my thoughts on all the reasons I have to praise your Name.

Reflect

Psalm 100; Romans 8:28

Ponder

Why is thankfulness part of God’s will for me?

Whom Do You Treasure?

Scripture

Matthew 6:20-21 NLT

Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.

Consider

Who are the people you treasure most in your life? You’ll find your deepest hopes and fears most evident in those relationships. Loving others is risky business. We invest ourselves in our love relationships hoping for a high rate of return. In looking to others to fulfill our needs, however, we expose our soft underbelly.

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Bad Medicine

Scripture

Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT

Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

Consider

To get rid of all evil behavior, as Paul suggests, we must not only mend our behavior toward others but also block the evil done to us. If we allow those evil acts to penetrate our minds and hearts, they can take up residence and generate further evil within us—resentment, rage, thirst for revenge.

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Look At the Stars

Scripture

Isaiah 40:26-27 NLT

Look up into the heavens. Who created the stars? He brings them out like an army, one after another, calling each by name. Because of his great power and incomparable strength, not a single one is missing. O Jacob, how can you say the LORD does not see your troubles? O Israel, how can you say God ignores your rights?

Consider

Relationship conflicts often boil down to uncertainties about our worth.

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Pride That Poisons

Scripture

1 Peter 5:5-7 NLT

And all of you, serve each other in humility, for “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.” So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor.

Consider

Pride is a powerful enemy of healthy relationships. Its weapon is self-deception—when pride rules us, we fail to see ourselves as we truly are. Pride blinds us to our faults and exaggerates our virtues. It rewrites our memories to downplay our shame and guilt and shifts blame to others. Pride justifies envy, fuels fear, and motivates selfish, hurtful behaviors.

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