Please God First

Scripture

1 Thessalonians 2:3-4 (CEB)

Our appeal isn’t based on false information, the wrong motives, or deception. Rather, we have been examined and approved by God to be trusted with the good news, and that’s exactly how we speak. We aren’t trying to please people, but we are trying to please God, who continues to examine our hearts.

Consider

From the time of Paul until the present, people have been skeptical of the good news of Christ.

In Paul’s time, scam artists and false healers had come among the believers in Thessalonica and given traveling preachers like Paul a bad reputation. Paul writes to convince the church that they can trust the good news he presented to them when they became believers. He distinguishes himself from the charlatans by contrasting methods and motives—instead of peddling lies and false hope to satisfy greedy ambitions, Paul and his companions are “holy, just, and blameless” toward the believers and motivated only by such love as a parent would show his children (vv. 10-11).

Knowing their suspicions, Paul defends the integrity of his message by behaving scrupulously. He speaks plainly and works to support himself so that he need not take any money from them. Moreover, he emphasizes that God Himself examined and approved him for his holy task of evangelism. Paul makes it clear that he wants and needs nothing from the church. He seeks approval from God alone, so he has no reason to deceive or mislead anyone. They can trust him and the message he brings.

In our time, people remain suspicious of Christ’s messengers. “Hypocrite” is one of the most common descriptions applied to Christians today. If we want to be effective witnesses for our faith, we must follow Paul’s example and take special care to speak and act with integrity. Like Paul, we submit ourselves to God’s examination and confess the selfish motivations and behaviors we use to serve our own interests but cause others to doubt us and, worse, to doubt the integrity of the gospel we profess.

When seeking God’s approval becomes our first priority, we can learn to let go of our need to be admired and approved by others. Loving and serving God first frees us to love and serve others without concern for ourselves and without resorting to lies and manipulations. As our behaviors align with what we claim to believe, people have reason to trust us and the message of hope we bring.

Pray

FATHER, in a world full of trickery and suspicious motives, you call me to holiness and integrity for the sake of your Name. Help me toward a life that is “holy, just, and blameless” that I might be a beacon shining your goodness and truth to a people who need to know you. Continue to examine my heart that you might approve and trust me to carry your light into my relationships.

Reflect

Matthew 15:3-11; Romans 8:5-8;  2 Corinthians 8:20-21

Ponder

Where might the Spirit like to work in your life to make you a more trustworthy messenger of the gospel?

Better Than Kisses

Scripture

Proverbs 27:5-6 (NLT)

An open rebuke is better than hidden love!

Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.

Consider

This pair of proverbs, upon reflection, may seem reasonable. A friend’s critical observation, after all, should mean more to us than empty flattery from an adversary.

In that moment of confrontation, however, we often react as if we believe the opposite. We take offense at a well-meant rebuke because we expect our friends to affirm us and our enemies to attack us.

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On Trial for Christ

Scripture

2 Corinthians 6:3-10 (NRSV)

Consider

When we accept the lordship of Christ in our lives, we also receive God’s commission to be ministers of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18). Like the apostle Paul, we becoming living advertisements for the miraculous new life that awaits anyone who will respond to God’s call to be loved and saved to eternal life. Whether we like it or not, people judge Christ by what they see in us. We become the incarnate gospel, the flesh that people can see and touch and evaluate.

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First Loyalty

Scripture

Proverbs 3:3-6 (NRSV)

Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good repute in the sight of God and of people.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

Consider

Loyalty is a character trait that nurtures healthy relationships. To be loyal means to commit unswerving support to another person. It means standing with that person against danger or opposition.

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Pray for All People

Scripture

1 Timothy 2:1-4 (NLT)

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity. This is good and pleases God our Savior, who wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth.

Consider

Implicit in Paul’s counsel to “pray for all people” is a difficult but important corollary—let there be no one for whom you will not pray.

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