Call Story

Scripture

Acts 26:12-16 (NIV)

“On one of these journeys I was going to Damascus with the authority and commission of the chief priests. About noon, O king, as I was on the road, I saw a light from heaven, brighter than the sun, blazing around me and my companions. We all fell to the ground, and I heard a voice saying to me in Aramaic, ‘Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me? It is hard for you to kick against the goads.’ Then I asked, ‘Who are you, Lord?’ ‘I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,’ the Lord replied. ‘Now get up and stand on your feet. I have appeared to you to appoint you as a servant and as a witness of what you have seen of me and what I will show you.’”

Consider

What is often described as the story of Paul’s conversion is really the story of Paul’s divine call. His encounter with Jesus on the Damascus road did not change his identity as a Jew but rather his understanding of what being a Jew meant in light of the risen Messiah. Jesus spoke directly into Paul’s life and commissioned him to be “a servant and a witness” to the Gentiles “to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me” (v. 18).

Not all of us receive a call from God as dramatic and decisive as Paul’s. Moreover, we may receive more than one call as we journey with Christ, as we mature in our faith and encounter new and challenging situations. Although particulars change, the basic call remains the same: to be a servant and a witness for Christ.

Viewing our relationships in terms of this divine calling can reshape our thoughts and redirect our responses to people. Consider your “call story” at this particular season of your life. To whom might God be calling you to be a light for Christ? Here are some suggestions:

  • Someone close to you, such as a brother or sister in the faith who needs encouragement.
  • A neighbor, coworker, or family member who is far from God and does not know Jesus.
  • Someone who is struggling with mental or physical illness—cancer, depression, loneliness, substance abuse, addiction to pornography or sex—who needs God’s help urgently.
  • A victim of human cruelty, perhaps from childhood, who has never known the goodness and grace available through faith in Christ.
  • Someone estranged from you whose heart could be softened by your generosity, whether through your apology or your forgiveness.

As you consider your current “call story,” dig deeper with these two questions:

Pray

FATHER, redirect my gaze to see opportunities to serve you in my relationships. Share with me your desires for the people in my life and equip me with the grace and goodness I need to minister to them in love and humility. Grow my faith and deepen my understanding of what it means to follow You in every circumstance.

Reflect

Acts 1:8;  1 Peter 3:15

Ponder

Recall a time when God used you to shine a light for Christ in a relationship. How might you retell this as your “call story”?

Give It Back to God

Scripture

Luke 20:21-25 (NIV)

So the spies questioned him: “Teacher, we know that you speak and teach what is right, and that you do not show partiality but teach the way of God in accordance with the truth. Is it right for us to pay taxes to Caesar or not?” He saw through their duplicity and said to them, “Show me a denarius. Whose portrait and inscription are on it?” “Caesar’s,” they replied. He said to them, “Then give to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.”

Consider

Although we may debate exactly what Jesus meant in his reply, there is irony in his statement.

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Hidden Places

Scripture

Psalm 51:5-7 (CEB)

Yes, I was born in guilt, in sin, from the moment my mother conceived me. And yes, you want truth in the most hidden places; you teach me wisdom in the most secret places. Purify me with hyssop and I will be clean; wash me and I will be whiter than snow.

Consider

In these three verses, the psalmist gives us a model prayer for dealing with relationships that resist healing: (a) He acknowledges the universal and unavoidable problem of sin that contaminates our interactions with one another, (b) he describes God’s desire to expose and replace our sin with truth.

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I Had No Choice

Scripture

Romans 8:14-15 (NIV)

We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.

Consider

As much as we like to think we are in charge of our choices, we can all admit to times when we felt compelled to act in particular ways, perhaps against our will or better judgment. We may have reacted without thinking or followed a wrong path out of fear or habit. We may have hurt others or ruined a relationship for reasons we can’t explain.

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Keeping to the Right Track

Scripture

1 Corinthians 10:12-13 (NLT)

If you think you are standing strong, be careful not to fall. The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.

Consider

Sooner or later, we each encounter relationships that seem to pack more pain than pleasure. We may endure repeated conflicts with an adult child who lives a troubling lifestyle or with a critical parent who never lets up.

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