Spirit Enemies

Scripture

Psalm 5:8 (New Living Translation)

Lead me in the right path, O LORD, or my enemies will conquer me. Make your way plain for me to follow.

Consider

If I believe that someone who injures me in a relationship conflict is my enemy, then my thinking is too small.

Our enemies are the rebellious spirits who hate God and oppose his rule. They attack him by attacking what he loves—us—and they target our relationships because we are vulnerable in our need for love and connection with other people.

The psalmist knows that our enemies cannot harm us when we are centered in God’s love and will for our lives. We get into trouble when we lose sight of him and stray from the path he has set for us.

The psalmist continues in verse 9:

My enemies cannot speak a truthful word. Their deepest desire is to destroy others. Their talk is foul, like the stench from an open grave. Their tongues are filled with flattery.

The legions of Satan are skilled at deception. Indeed, that is their favorite weapon against the children of God. When someone injures me, these spirit enemies lie and jabber at me, telling me what my wounded ego wants to hear. They flatter me by telling me how right I am and how wrong the other person is, how justified I am to feel angry and resentful. But their whispers stink of death because their very breath arises from all that is doomed and putrid and alienated from our holy God. They pretend to build me up, but their purpose is always to corrupt and destroy.

The psalmist identifies our hope in verse 10:

O God, declare them guilty. Let them be caught in their own traps. Drive them away because of their many sins, for they have rebelled against you.

The God we belong to is our fortress and strength against these devious spirits of darkness. I need God’s truth and light to expose them, so that their falseness becomes obvious and they are condemned by their own lies. I can triumph when I acknowledge that this is God’s battle. He will judge and banish the evil ones who oppose him and save me from their power to control and deceive me.

Pray

FATHER, it is so easy to lose my way when I feel hurt and offended by someone I care about. I feel a strong pull to justify myself and to escalate hostilities with resentment and retaliation. Help me to recognize the lies that are tempting me to see this other person as the source of my pain. Open my eyes to recognize my true enemies and acknowledge my need for your strength and truth to banish them.

Reflect

Psalm 32:8; John 8:44

Share

Name a lie that might tempt you to leave God’s path and escalate a conflict.

The Secret to Facing Adversity

Scripture

Philippians 4:11-13 (Phillips)

Nor do I mean that I have been in actual need, for I have learned to be content, whatever the circumstances may be. I know now how to live when things are difficult and I know how to live when things are prosperous. In general and in particular I have learned the secret of facing either poverty or plenty. I am ready for anything through the strength of the one who lives in me.

Consider

It is a testimony to his faith that Paul could write so optimistically while chained in a Roman prison. The secret, he says, is relying on the strength of Christ.

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Beneath the Anger

Scripture

Hosea 6:6-7 (New Living Translation)

“I want you to show love, not offer sacrifices. I want you to know me more than I want burnt offerings. But like Adam, you broke my covenant and betrayed my trust.”

Consider

We read in the book of Hosea passage after passage of scathing indictments against Israel for her faithlessness. God repeatedly pronounces his anger and judgment against her. Then, like an unexpected arrow of light breaking through a dark sky, this tender passage emerges, giving us a glimpse of God’s heart.

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Do Good

Scripture

1 Peter 2:21 (New Living Translation)

For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps.

Consider

To do good to someone who has abused and insulted you is nothing short of a holy task.

Kindness does not come naturally to us when we’ve been injured by another’s cruelty or carelessness. Our earthly nature instinctively turns us defensive and even vengeful. Injured pride and insecurity can drive us deep into survival mode.

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A Family Set Apart

Scripture

Leviticus 19:2,17-18 (New King James Version)

“You shall be holy, for I the LORD your God am holy.…You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him. You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.”

Consider

When God adopts us into his family, he demands loyalty and commitment to the purity of his family. We are commanded to love our brothers and sisters in the faith and to sacrifice for their welfare.

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