Posts Categorized: Forgiving Day-by-Day

Impossible Peace

Scripture

Romans 12:18 NIV

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

Consider

The apostle Paul urges us to live in peace with one another, yet he also acknowledges that peace is not necessarily within our grasp. A conflict always has two sides to consider, and the other person may not want peace or reconciliation. Even the wisest words have no effect on people who are not willing to listen. Some people view conflict as a contest they must win by seeing the other side defeated. Sometimes our attempts to bring peace only seem to provoke more resentment.

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Expect God

Scripture

Isaiah 40:31 ESV

But they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.

Consider

Dealing with a difficult relationship can be exhausting. We spend our energy on heated arguments or stubborn silences, and then we replay the hurtful scenes over and over in our minds. With the diligence of a defense attorney bringing our case to trial, we review the particulars and construct a narrative that explains exactly what the offenses are and who is to blame.

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The Narrow Gate

Scripture

Matthew 7:13-14 NRSV

Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road is easy that leads to destruction, and there are many who take it. For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there are few who find it.

Consider

Discipleship is not an easy road. The Greek word for “disciple” in the New Testament means both a learner and an adherent, that is, one who studies with a teacher for instruction and also imitates the teacher as the ideal model. It is no coincidence that “disciple” and “discipline” come from the same Latin root.

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When We Can’t Feel God’s Love

Scripture

Psalm 143:6-7 NLT

I lift my hands to you in prayer. I thirst for you as parched land thirsts for rain. Come quickly, LORD, and answer me, for my depression deepens. Don’t turn away from me, or I will die.

Consider

Even King David, a man after God’s own heart, suffered from depression. Anyone who has struggled with depression knows its paralyzing effects and tunnel vision. David was no exception. Why does he complain of thirst for God when God is ever present with life-giving water? Because David is in emotional distress so gripping that he cannot perceive God’s loving nearness.

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Be Merciful

Scripture

Romans 12:14 NLT

Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them.

Consider

Showing mercy to our enemies might be one of the most difficult commandments to embrace. In this era of escalating evil, it feels counterintuitive to seek God’s blessing for perpetrators intent on violence and destruction. Yet Paul tells the early Christian church exactly what Jesus told his disciples and what God still tells us today: Bless your enemies, pray for them, and do not curse them.

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