Scripture

Exodus 23:4-5 (New Living Translation)

If you come across your enemy’s ox or donkey that has strayed away, take it back to its owner. If you see that the donkey of someone who hates you has collapsed under its load, do not walk by. Instead, stop and help.

Consider

God’s way of retaliating for a harm suffered is to extend compassion and kindness to the offender. How radical is that! Even more astounding, Jesus told us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us.

Our mission as God’s ambassadors on earth is pretty clear: Instead of trying to get ahead of others and win conflicts, we are assigned God’s work of redemption in whatever relationships come our way.

Interestingly, God’s nature becomes most visible in those very relationships that cause us the most pain and trouble. When the world expects revenge and harsh treatment but instead sees us responding to our enemies with the fruit of God’s loving Spirit, then the world takes notice and God is glorified!

Pray

FATHER, it is hard to be thankful for the difficult, painful relationships in my life! When I feel angry and frustrated with others, give me a strong sense of your Spirit. Take each vengeful feeling in me and transform it into fruit that benefits those who wish me harm. Help me to extend your grace to those who may not know they need it.

Reflect

Proverbs 25:21-22; 1 Peter 3:9

Share

When did someone show kindness to you when you expected anger? How did this gesture affect your relationship?